You are getting married in Poland? Fantastic! You're probably buried under Pinterest boards, guest lists, and trying to convince your fiancé that you really do need those extra fairy lights. But let’s pause for a second — have you thought about how to thank your parents? In Poland, this is not just a “Thanks, Mom and Dad!” moment. It’s a tradition-laden, emotional highlight of the entire wedding. So, grab a coffee (or a shot of Polish vodka) and let's make sure you do it right!
The Blessing – Old, Gold & Beautiful
Before you even say “I do”, there’s a little magic moment that many modern couples still cherish – the parental blessing, known as błogosławieństwo. Traditionally, it happens at the bride’s home, where both sets of parents bless the couple with holy water and good wishes. And yes, there will be tears. You, your parents, your photographer — everyone cries.
TIP: Make this intimate. Invite only close family, create a cozy space, light some candles, and let it be YOUR moment.
Bread, Salt & Wine – The Polish Welcome Ritual
As you arrive at the venue, your parents will greet you with bread, salt, and wine (chleb, sól i wino). Sounds simple? Well, it’s loaded with meaning:
- Bread: May you never know hunger.
- Salt: Life isn’t always sweet, but you’ll handle it together.
- Wine: For the sweetness and joy.
This is the most photographed scene in Polish weddings — trust me, I’ve captured it countless times.
Funny Fact: Sometimes couples try to sneak a double vodka shot instead of wine... it’s Poland, anything can happen.
Parents’ Thank You Speech – Keep it Real
Your wedding speech is the perfect time to make your parents melt into happy puddles. Be sincere. Say the obvious. Share silly childhood memories, thank them for their patience (especially during those teenage years when you swore you’d never get married), and don’t be afraid to get emotional.
Hot tip: End with “Kochamy Was!” (“We love you!”) — universal and always effective.
Creative Ways to Say Thank You (No Boring Gifts Allowed)
1. Personal Gifts
- Handmade photo album (bonus points if you include photos from your first steps to the wedding).
- Custom jewelry with engraving like “Dziękujemy” (Polish for “Thank you”).
- Surprise video where friends & family share stories about your parents.
2. Experience Gifts
- Weekend getaway in the Polish mountains (Tatry? Yes, please!) or spa retreat.
- Concert tickets for their favorite Polish artist.
3. Memory Lane
- Dedicate a special table at the reception with old family photos, parents’ wedding photos, and nostalgic items.
Parent Dance – Do It!
No, it’s not just for Hollywood movies. In Poland, many couples share a dance with their parents. Choose a song that means something. It can be your dad’s favorite rock classic or the lullaby your mom used to sing. These moments are the ones you’ll remember when the cake is long gone.
Recommended Polish classics:
- “Cudownych rodziców mam”
- “Tyle słońca w całym mieście”
The Secret Ingredient? Surprise Them!
Why not organize a small surprise? A slideshow, a heartfelt letter read during the wedding, or even a secret performance dedicated to your parents. Remember, it’s about the effort, not the budget.
Real Polish Couples’ Tricks
- Some couples privately gift parents the morning after the wedding with handwritten letters.
- Others set up a quiet parents-only dinner before the big day.
- And yes, some just dance the night away with their parents until dawn without any formalities — and that’s okay too!
FAQ – Because You Will Google It Anyway
Do I have to give a speech in front of everyone?
Not if you don’t want to! Private speeches work wonders too.
Can I skip the traditional blessing?
Sure! But many couples keep it for the emotional value.
What if parents are divorced?
Handle it gently. Blessings and speeches can be done separately.
Can I just hug them and call it a day?
Honestly? Yes. But don’t underestimate the power of a few heartfelt words.
Polish weddings are about more than just killer food and epic parties. They’re about family, traditions, and moments you’ll tell your grandchildren about. Saying “thank you” to your parents is not just polite — it’s pure magic.
As someone who has spent years capturing these priceless moments behind the lens, I can assure you — these are the photos you'll frame, cherish, and cry over (in a good way). If you want your story to be told with love, visit my portfolio here. Curious about photo packages? Peek at this page. Or simply say hi via contact — let’s create memories that will last beyond a lifetime.
(Article written by an experienced wedding photographer passionate about Polish wedding traditions and authentic love stories.)
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