Ah, the wedding is over. The cake is gone, the dance floor has survived (barely), and now you are a happily married couple staring at… a pile of empty thank-you cards. Don’t panic. Breathe. Put on your comfy socks, grab some tea (or wine – no judgment here) and let’s make this easier, and even fun.
Why Thank You Cards Matter (Yes, Even in 2025)
In Poland, thank-you cards (kartki z podziękowaniami) aren’t just a cute gesture – they are part of good wedding etiquette and a tradition that guests expect. Whether you had a luxury wedding at Pałac Rozalin or a rustic party in your uncle’s garden, sending these cards shows your love and appreciation. Plus, guests will love the surprise when your card arrives weeks after the party – not another bill, but a piece of wedding magic.
When Should You Send Them?
Traditionally: within 3 months after the wedding. Realistically: before your first anniversary… 😉
But seriously, sooner is better, especially if you want to keep your grandma happy.
What to Write in Polish Wedding Thank You Cards?
Here's your magic formula:
- Warm Greeting
Example: “Dear Aunt Basia and Uncle Marek,” - Say Thank You
Example: “We sincerely thank you for joining us on our big day and for your generous gift.” - Make It Personal
Example: “Your antique clock now proudly ticks away in our living room (and reminds us daily how time flies!).” - Closing Line
Example: “With love and endless gratitude,” - Signatures
Always from both of you, like a little team you are now!
Polish Phrases to Sprinkle In (Guests Will Love It)
- “Serdecznie dziękujemy” – We sincerely thank you
- “Dziękujemy za wspaniałą zabawę” – Thank you for the amazing fun
- “Z wyrazami miłości” – With love
Real Life Templates
- Classic & Elegant Dear Anna,
Thank you for sharing our special day and for your generous gift. It was a joy to celebrate with you.
Serdecznie dziękujemy!
With love, Kasia & Tomek - Funny & Modern Dear Piotr,
Thank you for the blender – our smoothies have never been so smooth. We now officially have no excuse not to eat healthy (but you know us).
Cheers and big hugs, Maja & Bartek - For Guests Without a Gift (but with a Big Heart) Dear Monika,
Thank you for making our day unforgettable with your laughter and presence. No gift could match the joy you brought!
Lots of love, Ania & Kamil
Polish Wedding Traditions to Mention in Thank You Cards (Optional but Sweet)
- “oczepiny” (midnight games) – if someone helped or made them memorable
- “gorzka wódka” – mention if you survived all the wedding toasts thanks to someone’s support
- “kwiaty zamiast prezentów” – thank guests who respected the no-gift policy and still came
Mistakes Everyone Makes (But You Won’t)
❌ Forgetting to mention the actual gift
❌ Using only copy-paste templates
❌ Sending the card only by email
❌ Writing: “Thanks for the money!” (no, just no)
Bonus: Thanking Vendors Like a Pro
Don’t forget the people behind the scenes: your photographer, DJ, planner, or that lovely lady from the cake shop who saved your dessert table. Send them a card too, or leave a nice review on Wesele z Klasą or Wedding.pl – future couples will thank you!
Before You Post It
☐ Did you write it by hand?
☐ Did you mention something personal?
☐ Did you sign both names?
☐ Did you double-check the address?
☐ Did you resist mentioning how much money you got?
Final Thoughts (from a Photographer Who’s Seen It All)
Your thank-you cards are more than tradition – they are the last dance of your wedding. Done well, they will bring smiles, tears (the good kind), and maybe inspire your guests to finally send you theirs when they get married.
💌 P.S. If you want your wedding memories to be as priceless as your thank-you cards, have a look at my portfolio here. You’ll also find photo packages tailored for dream weddings in Poland, and if you’re ready to chat about your big day – contact me anytime. Let’s make magic together! ✨
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